Very early in my career as a hypnotherapist, I had a young woman as a client who came to me for fear of driving. She was afraid to get a driver’s license. Living in Southern California was becoming harder and harder for the recent college graduate. She had to walk almost a mile to catch the bus to work and almost a mile to her office after she got off the bus. She was literally afraid of driving the car – it seemed large and foreign to her and she was afraid she could not control it. She was correct to be afraid of the car. A car is considered a lethal weapon by law enforcement. Part of what I helped her see is that yes, she may be afraid of the car and to see that fear as healthy. She began to understand that even through her fear she could learn to manage and control the car and use it to her advantage. She practiced and practiced. She started first in a parking lot and then finally on the streets. I am happy to report she passed her test on the first try and promptly drove herself across country to relocate in Nashville. A very happy ending to the story!
What can we learn from this story today? I think it translates very easily. We are living in a fearful time. We should be afraid of COVID-19 and its consequences. We can channel that fear to be safe and healthy when interacting with others. Here are some suggestions:
Planning becomes very important. In the same way that you wouldn’t drive on the wrong side of the street, you also should be careful interacting with people who may have or be carriers for COVID-19. Does that mean you need to stay inside your home 24/7 and never see any people? Probably not.
.It is important to get out of your home. Go for a walk in an area that is not busy. Take a drive and enjoy the beautiful scenery all around us.
It is also important to have safe personal interactions. Call your friends, schedule a zoom happy hour,or social distance outside with separate food and drinks. There are many alternatives available that can help keep you safe and healthy while still giving you social connections. Your friends will probably appreciate your calling!
Ongoing fear, worry or distress of any kind can lead to debilitating, life limiting chronic anxiety and even related physical symptoms. If your fear becomes overwhelming, I can help. I will listen, ask questions, and help you get information and gain understanding of your fears. We will develop transformative affirmations that focus on the positive outcome that you desire. You will be motivated and empowered to take action on your desired new behaviors with confidence and growing competence as you enjoy more freedom and less worry to hold you back or slow you down.
You do not have to cure Covid or wait for a vaccine to move past the virus fear, reduce anxiety, and bring a greater feeling of hope, confidence and freedom into your daily life.
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