Stress Management

Exercise to Improve Mood, Reduce Stress and Anxiety

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As the Covid-19 pandemic goes on, our levels of stress and anxiety continue to rise.  Hypnotherapy is one way of learning how to deal with these issues. Today I’d like to share another option.  My friend, Esta McIntyre, is a Corrective Exercise Specialist and owner of My Health Studio in Westlake Village, California.  I asked her to share some information about how exercise may improve your mood and help with stress and anxiety.

Esta, tell us a little about your background.

There is a quote that really resonates with me:

“When the world says, ‘Give up,” Hope whispers, ‘Try it one more time.’”

~ Unknown ~

I have been a fitness, nutrition and wellness coach for the last 15 years.  However, I’m not the “run-of-the-mill” stereotype of the quintessential, talented counterparts who share my chosen profession.  You see, I’ve never been a fan of exercise, I love to eat and I’m predisposed to bouts of crankiness and mild depression.

 How do you feel about exercise?

Although I’m less than enthused about the act of methodical exercise, I do like the by-products of doing so. I’ve read over and over about studies showing how exercise can help to lift spirits. When you think about it, exercise is a safe and effective remedy. That appeals to me, since my body typically reacts negatively to meds. The thing is, it’s difficult to get up and get moving when we’re simply not in the mood or simply don’t want to loosen our grip on the TV remote long enough to get off the sofa.

How can we get started?

If you’re experiencing mild depression, stress or just feeling moody, you may need strategies to help you start an exercise program and stick with it. Try these tips for working out when you’re feeling low.

  • See your doctor. If you’re being treated for depression, let your doctor know about your plans. They can coordinate your treatment, answer your individual questions and help you to evaluate your progress.

  • Start small. Your first step can be as modest as a walk around the block or 10 minutes of stretching in the morning. As your energy levels increase, it will be easier to tackle larger endeavors.

  • Focus on aerobics. While lifting weights is critical to good health, research shows that aerobic activities are especially powerful in fighting anxiety and depression. Do something that speeds up your heart rate, like riding a bike or jumping rope or even dancing. Listen to music you enjoy

  • Set realistic goals. Aim for targets you can reach. If you’re a bit deconditioned, sign up for beginner fitness classes. Exercise for a few minutes at a time if you need to work your way up.

  • Make it convenient. Keep some gear at home that you can use anytime, such as resistance bands or a rowing machine. Do leg lifts and pushups while you’re brewing coffee or watching TV.

  • Be consistent. Regular exercise delivers greater results and reduces your risk of injuries. Try shortening your sessions instead of skipping a day if you’re feeling uninspired.

  • Move. Physical activity apart from formal exercise counts too. Block out time for gardening and housework.

 How do we stick with it?

 Once you start feeling better, it may be easy for you to rationalize slowing down – especially if lying on the sofa watching television is your favorite place to be.  Try these suggestions for sticking with the program (and I don’t mean the TV program).

  • Enjoy yourself. Find a variety of activities that you love, so you’ll look forward to your sessions. You might take dance classes one day and go hiking the next. Listen to your favorite songs and go outdoors when you can.

  • Create new challenges. Update your goals when you’re ready to aim higher. Slowly increase the duration and intensity of your workouts or learn a new skill.

  • Think positively. You may criticize yourself harshly when you’re down, tired or cranky. Become aware of your thoughts and experiment with more constructive messages. List your personal strengths and the things you like about your body.

  • Invest in yourself. Take care of your mental and physical wellbeing. Keeping fit also depends on eating a balanced diet and getting adequate amounts of restful sleep.

  • Reward yourself. Recognize your efforts by treating yourself to something that gives you pleasure. You might buy a book or take a bubble bath.

  • Seek support. Reach out to family and friends you trust and tell them what they can do to help you reach your fitness goals. They may offer words of encouragement or they may want to join you at the gym.

  • Remember your purpose. Think about the reasons why you want a more active life. Your main concern may be relieving symptoms of anxiety or depression, or you may have other priorities, like wanting to stay independent as you age or provide a healthy role model for your children.

So, the next time you want to feel better, instead of heading for a bowl of ice cream or diving into a bag of chips, quit slogging around.  Get up, start moving, and make it a regular thing. Even small increases in physical activity can have a big impact on mood and self-esteem.

Thanks, Esta.  If someone would like to work with you, how do we get in touch?

My website is www.EstaMcIntyre.com and my email is getfit@MyHealthStudio.com.

For additional perspectives on the importance of exercise, please see articles below.

Sincerely,

Cinda

HypnoNews and Resources

For additional perspectives on the importance of exercise, please see articles below.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/can-exercise-help-treat-anxiety-2019102418096

https://mtipt.com/managing-your-mental-health-during-the-covid-19-pandemic-with-exercise/

https://www.nuvancehealth.org/coronavirus/exercise-is-essential-for-well-being-during-covid-19-pandemic/#:~:text=However%2C%20here%20are%20a%20few,infections%2C%20including%20COVID%2D19.

Help! I'm muted and no one hears me. [Hypnotherapy and At Home Learning]

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My granddaughters recently stayed with us for 2 weeks.  I had an up close and real lesson in how hard it is for students, parents and teachers right now. 

My younger granddaughter, who is 7, didn’t really understand the keyboard and each day was a hunt and peck challenge.  One morning, in her first class of the day, she called out three times to respond to her teacher’s question. However, she was on mute and the teacher did not acknowledge her in any way. So she quit and sat through the rest of the lesson, frustrated and alone. Lesson learned? When no one hears you, just give up?

Another morning, when she finally did get online for school, the class session was filled with distractions. The teacher’s kids and dogs would randomly walk through the class, interrupting whatever concentration she might have mustered.

At the same time, her older sister was in another room working on a different schedule. Mom was teaching her classes in yet another room. Grandma and Grandpa were trying to help while maintaining some schedule of their own.  Sis, who is 10, fared a little better with the technology but was still easily distracted by YouTube videos and other things she could stream on a different device. And we had a ratio of 3 adults to 2 kids!  Anyone else feeling our pain? 

So what does this have to do with hypnotherapy?  Hypnotherapy can help you and your home student focus on the task at hand.  As you begin a task, take a deep breath and center yourself:  “Right now, I will only focus on the next 45 minute task or class.”  You will find that you will avoid distractions and work more easily.  Suggest that phrase to your student as well. 

It can be frustrating to be put in the role of teacher while you may be working from home.  This would be a good time to use your anchor, breathing in on a word that describes a positive time or place and breathing out on a word that describes the positive feeling associated with that time or place.  Shallow breathing and unconsciously holding your breath can contribute to stress. Focusing on your breathing can counteract that.

If you find yourself studying or working and teaching from home, you may want support in this crazy time. I am offering a free, online group hypnosis session every other Wednesday at 10 am.  Our next session will be on November 4th.  You can register here:
 https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tJEkcuCtrjsuEtbno4yNAHMDb7ZbSJRbVOpN

Sincerely, Cinda

Home Again? In Stressful Times Attitude Can Make the Difference

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My friend and neighbor, Judy, has a houseful.  Her 2 adult children have moved home for the time being.  They are both successful and have their own apartments in different big cities but wanted to be with family for the quarantine.  Judy has decided to see this as an amazing time to bond with her kids that she might never have had (and probably will not have again).  They are all working from home during the day and spend evenings and weekends cooking together, enjoying the outdoors together and having wonderful thoughtful adult conversations together.  Judy could have had the attitude of wanting to enjoy time alone with her husband and the quiet that comes when your children have left and been angry at their decision to come home.  I think she has made a smart decision to embrace this special time with her family.

How are you reacting to what is happening in our world today?  Are you feeling anxious, stressed and overwhelmed?  I would not be surprised if you were.   Take an objective look at your situation and really think about where you are.  Are things terrible?  Could they be worse?  Or are you one of the lucky ones like Judy – able to see the positive in this crazy situation.  How can you utilize what is going on to your advantage?  Are there online classes you can take to further your career if you are not working?  How can you strengthen your family relationships even if you are not living together?  Maybe this is a time to learn yoga online or how to meditate.  It could be a time to explore taking that class for something you have always wanted to learn or planting that garden you have dreamed about.

While not minimizing the seriousness of the situation, we can “pivot” and learn new ways of being, learning and responding to stress. Hypnotherapy is all about changing your mental attitude.  If you would like some ideas on how to change how you are responding to your current situation, I am available for a free private consultation.  Please call 1-818-929-4944